Money shouldn't be a taboo topic but most new couples avoid having the talk: CIBC Poll
Money shouldn't be a taboo topic but most new couples avoid having the talk: CIBC Poll
Canada NewsWire
TORONTO, Aug. 4, 2016
In his new report, For richer or poorer: Financial Planning Tips for Newlyweds, CIBC's Jamie Golombek offers advice on keeping financial harmony when the honeymoon's over
TORONTO, Aug. 4, 2016 /CNW/ - With August the most popular month in Canada for weddings, a new CIBC (TSX: CM) (NYSE: CM) poll finds that only a third of couples about to get hitched or enter a common-law relationship actually had a serious talk about money. Yet, nearly everyone (99 per cent) admits it's important to discuss how to plan and manage their finances together as a couple.
"While couples will spend several months planning, in great detail, their 'big day', our poll reveals that very few people actually broach the topic of how to plan and handle their finances once they begin their lives together," says Jamie Golombek, Managing Director, Tax and Estate Planning, Wealth Strategies Group, CIBC. "When you're caught up in the bliss of getting married, talking about money isn't particularly romantic, but, it shouldn't be a taboo topic. Before saying 'I do', it's important to make sure you are on the same financial page, otherwise you're setting yourself up for problems down the road."
In his new report, For richer or poorer: Financial Planning Tips for Newlyweds, Mr. Golombek offers advice to couples whether they're about to tie the knot or simply considering moving in together on when and how to have that money talk and how best to "marry" your money personalities.
Key poll findings include:
- Two-thirds (66 per cent) of those who plan to marry or live common law are entering their relationship in debt, including either student, personal, credit card, or mortgage debt. Yet, their top financial goal within the first two years of tying the knot is to save up for a trip or vacation (46 per cent).
- One-third (35 per cent) who plan to marry or live common law say they've had the money talk in detail, with 40 per cent saying they've only discussed how to manage finances together as a couple "briefly."
- Of those who admitted they haven't talked about money before the 'big day' or the 'move-in' date, most (83 per cent) said they didn't know either how or when to address the topic or said they plan "to play it by ear."
- 99 per cent say it's very or somewhat important to discuss how they will plan and discuss their finances as a couple.
Be open and honest
The poll findings also show that nearly two-thirds (63 per cent) do not plan to sit down with a financial advisor after their honeymoon or enter into a common-law relationship. Yet, almost a third (31 per cent) say it hadn't even occurred to them and admit it's probably a good idea.
"There's a reason why it's called a marriage 'contract,' but unlike typical contractual arrangements, marriage comes with emotion," says Mr. Golombek. "As couples get caught up in the whirlwind of excitement before their wedding, talking about money can be a delicate, very emotional topic, so it does really help to talk to someone who can be impartial, like a financial advisor, to help with difficult questions and concerns."
It's important to have an open and sincere discussion about finances before you take the big step and have it early in your relationship so your relationship has a solid financial footing, he says.
"Perhaps the springboard for having the 'big talk' about money is identifying your and your partner's philosophies on handling finances," says Mr. Golombek. "If you're an impulse buyer, and your partner-to-be is a super-saver, he or she may feel your shared goals of saving for the future – for kids, a house, or a car -- will be undermined.
"You and your partner don't need to have the same personality for your relationship to be successful, but discussing your personality differences in advance may prevent tension and stress down the road."
Go to @cibc on Twitter to identify your money personality on our interactive poll.
Tips to reduce financial stress in your relationship
In his For Richer or Poorer report, Mr. Golombek provides advice for couples to help them start their lives together on a solid financial footing when the honeymoon is over and the reality of everyday life sets in.
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Don't Avoid the Money Talk – Once you decide to "marry" and where you will live together, it is important to talk about how you're going to manage your household expenses. Mr. Golombek details three methods for couples to consider: |
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Plan for Savings – Beyond expenses, talk about your future together and saving for common goals, such as buying a car, a home, big-ticket items like appliances, starting a family, or saving for retirement. Also, set aside money for emergency expenses, typically three-to-six months' living expenses. |
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Speak to a Financial Advisor – While couples carefully select a professional to record their wedding, supply their flowers and do the makeup, most have no plans to work with a professional to help set up their joint finances. This is a common mistake that can set your marriage back. |
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A financial advisor can take the emotions out of the money talk by helping couples understand their real priorities and create a joint financial plan based on realistic goals and budgets. These plans are provided free-of–charge by most banks. |
KEY POLL FINDINGS
Percentage of Canadians planning to get married or enter into a common-law relationship, as defined as living with a partner for at least 12 consecutive months, in the next 24 months:
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National |
ON |
PQ |
BC |
Alberta/Prairies | |
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Getting married |
44% |
50% |
27% |
55% |
49% |
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Entering into a common-law relationship |
56% |
50% |
73% |
45% |
51% |
Importance of discussing how future spouses/partners will manage finances as a couple:
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Very important |
81% |
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Somewhat important |
18% |
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Not very important |
1% |
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Not important at all |
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How many have had a conversation with future spouse/partner how to manage finances as a couple:
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Yes, in detail |
35% |
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Yes, briefly |
40% |
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No, but we plan on discussing in the future |
18% |
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No, not at all |
7% |
Top five reasons for not discussing how future spouses/partners will manage finances as a couple (multi choice):
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It's too soon to do so |
50% |
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I plan to play it by ear and discuss our finances as a couple once it comes up |
20% |
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I'm uncomfortable sharing my personal financial situation with my spouse/partner |
13% |
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I don't know how to address this subject |
13% |
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I have little or no savings or debt, so there really isn't anything to discuss or plan |
12% |
Financial situation at the time of getting married or entering common-law relationship (multi choice):
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Have debt (net) |
66% |
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Have credit card debt, a personal loan or owe money on a line of credit |
43% |
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Have mortgage debt |
32% |
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Have student debt |
22% |
Personality type that best represents the couple's approach to handling money:
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Me |
Future Spouse/Partner | |
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Super-Saver: Takes pleasure in saving every penny and avoids unnecessary spending |
10% |
13% |
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Cautious Spender: Spends money prudently and saves as much as possible |
69% |
55% |
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Carefree Spender: Spends money freely and has a hard time meeting financial goals |
17% |
26% |
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Avoider: Pays no attention to money and prefers that someone else manages their finances |
3% |
7% |
Top five financial goals in the next one or two years once married or living common-law (multi choice):
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Save for a trip/vacation |
46% |
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Pay down debt |
43% |
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Keep finances separate (for now) |
38% |
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Buy a home |
33% |
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Start saving for a family |
26% |
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Start saving for retirement |
26% |
Percentage of Canadians planning to sit down with a financial advisor once married or living common law:
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Have already met with an advisor |
13% |
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Yes |
18% |
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No |
32% |
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Haven't thought about it but good idea |
31% |
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Don't know |
7% |
2016 CIBC Couple Finances Poll Disclaimer
From July 15-21, 2016, an online survey was conducted among 1,047 randomly selected Canadian adults who are Angus Reid Forum panellists and plan to get married or enter into a common-law relationship, defined as living with a partner for at least 12 consecutive months, in the next 24 months. The margin of error - which measures sampling variability - is +/- 4.0 per cent, 19 times out of 20.
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